Best Places to Elope in the World โ€“ Top 7 iconic Elopement Destinations

A bride and groom walk away from their elopement ceremony in Ireland.

If youโ€™ve dug into wedding planning and thought, this isnโ€™t for us, you're in the right place.

Most couples who find this blog arenโ€™t running away from a wedding โ€” theyโ€™re running toward something that feels real:

Freedom.
Breathable space.
A day that doesnโ€™t need an audience to mean everything.

This guide breaks down the best places in the world to elope, why they work, when to go, and what actually matters (plus how I help couples plan destination elopements without stress, confusion, or 100 open browser tabs!)

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A Quick Note Before We Dive In

Iโ€™ve photographed nearly 100 elopements across the U.S. and internationally โ€” Iceland, Spain, Ireland, Italy, Mexico, and more. Couples tell me the same thing over and over:

โ€œYou made this so easy.โ€

So as youโ€™re reading through these locations, know that everything Iโ€™m sharing comes from real experience with real couples in real places.

What Makes an Elopement Location Worth Traveling For?

After photographing nearly 100 elopements all over the world, I basically feel like an expert in what makes a location worth traveling for. In my experience, hereโ€™s what to consider when deciding on where to jet off to:

  1. Travel distance. I personally feel like any flight under 10 hours is the sweet spot. For most folks, you have to factor in how much vacation time you can take (and plus needing a vacation from your vacation lol), so keeping the travel days on the shorter side is my pro opinion. I havenโ€™t been to Asia yet, but once I do, Iโ€™ll come back and update here if itโ€™s worth the hella long flights.

  2. Welcoming atmosphere to foreigners/tourists. Not every destination gives off that โ€œweโ€™re so happy youโ€™re here!โ€ energy and trust us, that vibe matters when youโ€™re eloping. Some places make it easy. Locals are warm and welcoming, vendors are used to working with international couples, and the process feels smooth from start to finish. Other places? Not so much.

    We encourage you, or your elopement planner, to do some digging on this one before deciding for certain where youโ€™re going to tie the knot. For an stress-free elopement, choose a destination that embraces visitors, makes paperwork painless, and has vendors who actually understand elopements.

  3. Stunning scenery without permits. Some places make getting married in nature way more complicated than it should be. Others let you show up, say your vows, and soak in the moment with no red tape, no restrictions, and no stress.

    For the easiest elopement, choose a location where the only thing you have to worry about is finding the perfect viewโ€”not filling out paperwork to stand there. Not sure where that is? Iโ€™ve got you boo boo. In all the elopements Iโ€™ve photographed, Iโ€™ve never had to get a permit overseas.

  4. Flexible ceremony options. One of the best things about eloping? You get to do it your way. No rigid rules, no officiant required (in many places), and no pressure to follow traditions that donโ€™t resonate with you. Most couples who choose a destination elopement choose to have a symbolic ceremony, without the legal paperwork. This gives you total freedom over where, when, and how you say โ€œI do.โ€

    You can have your ceremony on a cliffside at sunrise, in the middle of a forest, or barefoot on the beach (no courthouse, no waiting periods, no restrictions.) Of course, if you want your elopement to be legally binding on the spot, plenty of destinations make that easy too. But if youโ€™d rather sign the paperwork back home and focus on the experience, a symbolic ceremony is the ultimate stress-free way to get married - and my expert recommendation.

TL;DR: What Makes a Location Worth Traveling For?

  1. Travel Distance: Keep flights under 10 hours.

  2. Welcoming Atmosphere: Choose places that embrace tourists and simplify the process.

  3. Stunning Scenery Without Permits: Opt for locations with no red tape.

  4. Flexible Ceremony: Opt for a symbolic ceremony and file the paperwork at home.

 

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Best Places to Elope In the World

Letโ€™s get this show on the road! Here are my top 7 iconic elopement destinations where stunning landscapes, easy logistics, and welcoming culture come together for a seamless adventure of a lifetime.

Iceland

When I first photographed an elopement in Iceland - it changed me. That may sound cheesy but honestly this place is f*cking magic, which is why itโ€™s number one on my list of elopement locations. Or even just travel locations in general.

A bride and groom share a kiss next to a waterfall in Iceland for their destination elopement.

Weather will change. It will rain. It will shine. It will snow. Thatโ€™s part of being here. Keep your ceremony close to where you stay, so youโ€™re not lugging across the island in case we have to break up your elopement day coverage. Move with it. Trust it. Let it be Iceland..

Pro-tip: ignore everything you read on the internet or social media about where to go in Iceland. Iโ€™ll take you to the spots where only the locals know. 

Best time to elope in Iceland: June to August for longer days and mild weather, November to February for the Northern Lights.

Shameless plug: Check out an Iceland elopement gallery here

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Spain

The first time I traveled to Spain for a destination elopement, I understood why my best friend moved here from the States. Itโ€™s like everythingโ€™s been warmed in olive oil. You slow down without meaning to. Lunch turns into wine, wine turns into golden hour, golden hour turns into โ€œletโ€™s never leave.โ€ Seriously I want to move there and never leave.

You can get married by the sea in Costa Brava, in the quiet of a Catalonian vineyard, or in a white stone village that still smells like bread at sunrise. Spain has this way of wrapping around you and saying, โ€œtake your time, thereโ€™s no rush.โ€

If you want it legal, there is paperwork, there is always paperwork. Most couples just make it symbolic and save the signing for home. Itโ€™s much simpler this way, and absolutely does not change the significance of your ceremony (Iโ€™ve had two couples elope in Spain and neither of them had any complaints about doing the legal bits at home.)

Remember my bestie that I mentioned above? Sheโ€™s also a well-connected travel coordinator and has helped me plan some of my international destination elopements. Sheโ€™s well-versed in where to stay, what to do, and where to eat. My elopement packages come with her perks as well. Itโ€™s a win-win for you honestly. 

Best time to elope in Spain: spring or fall, when the heat softens and the crowds disappear.
Pro tip: youโ€™ll need a well-thought out elopement timeline. Logistics are my super power. 

Shameless plug: Check out a Spain elopement gallery here.

Want to learn more about eloping in Spain? Iโ€™ve written a whole blog about it over here.


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USA

When I was 27, I roadtripped across the United States and I realized just how wildly diverse this countryโ€™s landscape is. You can be standing in a red-rock canyon in Utah, feeling the sun bake the cliffs around you, and a week later, wandering through misty, moss-covered forests in Oregon where the air smells of pine and damp earth. National parks like Yosemite and Zion offer dramatic landscapes that feel larger than life, and there are countless hidden corners that feel completely yours.

Some couples want sweeping views, others crave quiet intimacy. The legal side is straightforward, and there are local officiants who know how to make your ceremony smooth and personalized. Some parks require permits for outdoor ceremonies, so a little planning goes a long way.

A couple exchanges their first kiss at their elopement ceremony in Joshua Tree.




What to keep in mind:
While the process is generally easy, certain national parks may require permits for outdoor weddings, so always double-check. And if you're traveling across the country, factor in the distance and your preferred climate.

Best time to elope: May through October covers most regions. In the summer, head to the PNW. In the winter, head to California. 

Looking for something unique? We may be biased, but elopements in West Virginia are gorgeous, affordable, and off-the-beaten path. Weโ€™re also HUGE fans of eloping in Joshua Tree.

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Switzerland

If vast peaks and valleys are on your elopement must-have list, this is the place. Your Switzerland elopement could take two forms: either luxurious and full-throttle or simple and adventurous. The difference between the two is going to be your budget.

Traveling within the country is definitely part of the adventure. There are a few locations that are car-free (like the Matterhorn), so youโ€™ll need a well-thought out plan. 

Legal requirements for international couples are straightforward, but itโ€™s worth checking the details with local authorities before you go.

Best time to elope in Switzerland: June to September for warm weather and clear skies, December to February for winter wonderland vibes.

Full disclosure: I havenโ€™t photographed an elopement in Switzerland yet, but nearly all of my destination work has been in places Iโ€™d never visited before. My planning system works anywhere in the world, so Iโ€™ll guide you every step of the way. Switzerland is high on my bucket list, so Iโ€™d love to go on this adventure with you!

 
 

Italy

Italy doesnโ€™t need much introduction. Rolling hills in Tuscany, cliffs along the Amalfi Coast, or the jagged peaks of the Dolomites all feel like stepping into an international love story.

Iโ€™ve been to Italy three times, and each visit surprises me with how much I love this country. Pro tip: skip Rome and any of the historic tours. Unless thatโ€™s really your thing, there are more enriching ways to experience Italy (through your stomach.)

A bride and groom exchange a kiss at the destination elopement in Italy.

Remember my friend I mentioned earlier? Her planning expertise extends thoroughly into Italy. She married an Italian and basically planned her own destination wedding there. She knows all the secrets, and my Italy elopement packages share all of her insight with you.

What to keep in mind:
The legal process for getting married in Italy requires a bit of paperwork, but itโ€™s straightforward with the help of an experienced planner. If you plan to marry at a popular tourist spot, be sure to check if permits are needed for the location. For most destination elopements, we recommend for couples to do the legal paperwork at home, then have a symbolic ceremony on the big day of.

Best time to elope in Italy: April to June and September to October for pleasant weather and fewer crowds.

Shameless plug: Check out this Florence, Italy elopement gallery here.

 
 

Portugal

Portugal is growing as a go-to elopement and wedding destination, and itโ€™s easy to see why. The coastline feels endless, villages spill down hillsides in a splash of color and charm, and the culture invites you to savor the moment. From Lisbon to the Algarve, there are countless spots where you can say your vows without running into crowds. The legal side is straightforward, and local vendors know how to make intimate ceremonies feel seamless.

What to keep in mind:
Portugal is generally budget-friendly, but timing matters. Spring and fall bring the most pleasant weather, while summer can be hot and crowded. Remote areas require a bit more travel planning, but the landscapes and quiet are worth every extra mile.

Best time to elope in Portugal: March through June and September through November for mild weather and fewer tourists.

Pro tip: My approach to planning in new destinations works anywhere. Even if I havenโ€™t photographed an elopement in Portugal yet, I can guide you to the spots only locals know and handle the logistics so your day runs smoothly. Portugal is high on my bucket list and Iโ€™d love to have my first Portugal experience be with one of my elopement couples.

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Ireland

Ireland can feel like stepping back in time. Rolling hills, stone cottages, and the occasional misty morning. When I worked there in 2023, I spent hours digging online to find a spot that no one would be at. And not only did my couple get to experience total privacy at not one, but two locations on their elopement day, they also had the perfect weather and were kissed by an Irish rainbow.


Summer brings bright green landscapes and long days, while spring offers quieter roads and a more intimate atmosphere. Weather can be unpredictable, so plan for layers and flexibility.

Pro tip: Ireland has corners that feel untouched by tourism. With the right guidance, you can find the spots locals keep to themselves, making your elopement feel completely private.

Best time to elope in Ireland: May to September for the best weather and the most beautiful landscapes.

Shameless plug: Check out an Ireland elopement gallery here.

 

TL;DR Best Places To Elope in the World

1. Iceland โ€“ Breathtaking & Legally Simple

Short, 5 hour flight from the east coast of the US.
Best locations: Black Sand Beaches, Skogafoss Waterfall.

2. Spain โ€“ Beautiful & Easy to Navigate

Welcoming atmosphere and plenty of elopement vendors. Best locations: Malaga or Mallorca

3. USA โ€“ Diverse & Accessible

Variety of landscapes with simple legal requirements.
Best locations: PNW, Colorado, Joshua Tree

4. Switzerland โ€“ Scenic & Intimate

Self-solemnizing in some regions, plus stunning backdrops. Best locations: Swiss Alps, Lake Geneva.

5. Italy โ€“ Romantic & Stress-Free

Symbolic ceremonies are easy to arrange.
Best locations: Amalfi Coast, Tuscany, Dolomites.

6. Portugal โ€“ Scenic & Affordable

Budget-friendly options. Best locations: Lisbon, Algarve coast.

7. Ireland โ€“ Friendly & Lush Landscapes

The culture is welcoming and the vibes are unique.
Best locations: West Coast & Wicklow Mountains

1. Iceland

Legal Requirements & Permits:
Iceland is one of the easiest countries for an elopement in terms of legalities. No residency requirement is needed, and you only need to submit paperwork 3-4 weeks prior to your wedding. A couple of important documents you'll need include your birth certificates and passport, along with proof of no previous marriages (if applicable). Thereโ€™s no permit required for outdoor ceremonies, so you can simply show up and exchange vows in Iceland's stunning natural surroundings.

2. Spain

Legal Requirements & Permits:
Spain is quite accommodating for elopements. For civil ceremonies, you need to provide documentation like passports, birth certificates, and proof of residence for at least two weeks prior to the wedding. If youโ€™re opting for a symbolic ceremony, the process is even simpler, as there are no legal documents involved. You donโ€™t need a permit for most outdoor locations, but some places (like parks or historic sites) may require oneโ€”be sure to confirm with your venue or planner in advance.

3. USA

Legal Requirements & Permits:
Legal requirements vary by state, but in general, you will need to apply for a marriage license (which you can usually get the same day in many states). Thereโ€™s no residency requirement in most states, and you donโ€™t need to be a U.S. citizen to marry. For symbolic ceremonies, there's no paperwork needed, but if you plan on having a legal ceremony, an officiant is required to file the marriage license after the ceremony. No permits are typically needed for outdoor ceremonies, but national parks and protected areas may require one, so double-check with your venue or planner.

4. Switzerland

Legal Requirements & Permits:
Switzerland allows for self-solemnizing weddings in some regions, which means you can legally marry without an officiant, as long as you are both citizens of certain countries (including the U.S. and EU nations). Otherwise, you'll need an officiant and to provide birth certificates, passports, and proof of residency in Switzerland for at least 10 daysprior to the ceremony. Outdoor ceremonies in public spaces generally donโ€™t require a permit, but venues like parks and gardens may have specific requirements, so confirm ahead of time.

5. Italy

Legal Requirements & Permits:
In Italy, couples can choose between civil or religious ceremonies. For a civil ceremony, you will need to provide passports, birth certificates (translated into Italian), and proof of residence for at least two days before the ceremony. Symbolic ceremonies are easier and donโ€™t require legal paperwork, but theyโ€™re just thatโ€”symbolic. Youโ€™ll need a permit for ceremonies in some outdoor locations, such as public parks, so make sure to get approval ahead of time through your venue or wedding planner.

6. Portugal

Legal Requirements & Permits:
Portugal is relatively straightforward when it comes to elopements. Youโ€™ll need to provide passports, birth certificates, and proof of no previous marriages (if applicable). Thereโ€™s a 10-day residency requirement for civil ceremonies, but if youโ€™re opting for a symbolic ceremony, you wonโ€™t need any legal documents. Outdoor weddings usually donโ€™t require a permit, but certain historic sites and protected areas may, so check with your wedding venue to avoid surprises.

7. Ireland

Legal Requirements & Permits:
Ireland has an easy process for couples planning to elope. Civil ceremonies are legally binding, and youโ€™ll need to provide passports, birth certificates, and proof of residency in Ireland for three days before the wedding. For a symbolic ceremony, thereโ€™s no paperwork required. Outdoor ceremonies in public places like beaches or parks donโ€™t usually require permits, but some iconic locations (such as the Cliffs of Moher) may need approval from local authorities, so it's important to confirm in advance.


A Stress-Free Approach: Legal Paperwork at Home

For many couples, the simplest and most stress-free approach is to sign the legal paperwork in their home country before they head to their elopement destination.

This allows you to skip the legal requirements and potential paperwork headaches abroad, leaving you with more time to enjoy the experience. You can then have a symbolic ceremony with an officiant or celebrant in your elopement location, making the moment feel just as meaningful without the legalities. This way, you can focus entirely on the celebration, knowing the paperwork is already taken care of at home.

Itโ€™s a practical and romantic solution that allows you to experience your dream elopement with fewer logistical worries.


Best Time of Year to Elope

The ideal time to elope varies by season, and each season offers its own charm and benefits depending on the experience youโ€™re after. Hereโ€™s a breakdown of each season and our recommended locations:

Winter (December to February)

Winter elopements are perfect for couples seeking serenity and snow-covered landscapes. You'll enjoy fewer crowds, lower rates, and magical winter backdrops.
Recommended locations:

  • Iceland for its Northern Lights and snowy landscapes.

  • Switzerland for Alpine snow scenes and cozy mountain escapes.

  • Canada for a winter wonderland elopement in national parks.

Spring (March to May)

Spring brings mild temperatures and the beauty of blooming flowers and fresh greenery. Itโ€™s also a great time to avoid the busy summer wedding season.
Recommended locations:

  • Portugal for mild weather and vibrant spring flowers.

  • Italy for beautiful vineyard views and romantic countryside vibes.

  • Spain for beaches and beautiful coastlines.

  • Joshua Tree for the mild(er) desert temps

Summer (June to August)

Summer offers the longest days and the warmest weather, perfect for couples who want to elope in a place thatโ€™s more about adventure than weather-related constraints. However, be mindful of the busy wedding season, as some locations can get crowded.
Recommended locations:

  • USA for scenic national parks and endless outdoor options like the PNW.

  • Iceland for the magical midnight sun and vibrant landscapes.

  • Scotland Summer in Scotland is cool and relatively peaceful, making it perfect for couples who want to avoid the typical tourist hotspots while still soaking in rich history and dramatic landscapes.

  • Norway Norwayโ€™s summer is refreshing, with temperatures that stay moderate and daylight lasting well into the evening, making it perfect for late-night elopements..

Fall (September to November)

Fall is widely regarded as the best time to elope. With milder weather, fewer crowds, and stunning natural colors, itโ€™s ideal for couples seeking a more intimate experience.
Recommended locations:

  • Italy for Tuscanyโ€™s vineyards and mild autumn weather.

  • Ireland for the lush landscapes and cooler, quieter season.

  • Switzerland for the stunning fall foliage in the Alps.

  • West Virginia for some of the best fall foliage in the US.

 
 

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Elopement Planning Tips from a pro

When it comes to planning an elopement, the goal is to make it feel authentically you: no fluff, no stress, just what works for you as a couple. Iโ€™ve worked with nearly 100 couples all over the world, and hereโ€™s what Iโ€™ve learned along the way:

  1. Focus on what matters to you
    Forget tradition and do what feels right. This day is about you two, so focus on the details that matter most to you. Whether thatโ€™s a mountain view, an intimate ceremony, or just a quiet moment together: prioritize those things. If youโ€™re not into certain traditions, skip them. This is your day.

  2. Hire a planner (if you need one)
    If your elopement destination is a bit outside your comfort zone, an elopement planner can make everything easier. Theyโ€™ll handle the logistical stuff: permits, paperwork, local vendors, so you can just show up and enjoy the experience. Plus, they know the hidden gems of your location, which could be a game-changer. Nowawdays- most elopement photographers offer planning in their packages, like me. All of my destination packages include both digital planning and in-person scouting.

  3. Keep your guest list tiny
    A lot of couples choose to elope just the two of them, and if thatโ€™s your vibe, great. But if you want to bring a couple of close friends or family, keep it small. The fewer people, the more intimate and relaxed your day will feel. No need for a crowd unless thatโ€™s your thing.

  4. Donโ€™t overcomplicate your timeline
    You have the flexibility to take things at your own pace, but having a basic timeline will help keep things smooth. Know when and where you want to say your vows, how much time you need for photos, and when you just want to chill. You donโ€™t need to rush through anything. Just flow with it.

  5. Pack smart, not heavy
    If youโ€™re trekking to your ceremony spot, you donโ€™t want to be weighed down by unnecessary stuff. Pack lightโ€”think practical and stylish, not heavy and cumbersome. Youโ€™ll thank yourself later. And if youโ€™re doing something adventurous, make sure your shoes are made for the terrain.

  6. Expect the unexpected (weather-wise)
    Weather can be a little unpredictable, especially with outdoor elopements. Have a backup plan (or at least some weather-appropriate gear). A cute umbrella or a cozy jacket goes a long way. But donโ€™t stressโ€”rain, wind, or snow can just add to the magic if you roll with it.

  7. Sort your legal stuff early
    Legalities vary by location, but for the most part, itโ€™s easier to take care of your paperwork at home before the ceremony. This lets you focus on the meaningful partโ€”the vows and the moment. Do your homework on whatโ€™s required, but donโ€™t let the paperwork stress you out. Thereโ€™s a solution for every situation.

  8. Donโ€™t forget to live the day
    Sure, youโ€™ll want amazing photos (who doesnโ€™t?), but donโ€™t let the pursuit of the perfect shot get in the way of your experience. Let the photographer capture those real, unposed moments, but take time to just be present with each other. The memories youโ€™ll cherish are the ones that feel natural and raw.

Elopements are about having your day, without the pressure of expectations. Trust yourself, trust the process, and enjoy the ride.

 
 

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How Much Does it Cost to Elope

One of the best things about eloping ANYWHERE is the budget!

Your elopement could be as big or as small as youโ€™d like it to be. High-end or luxury- the choice is yours (and your walletโ€™s lol)

A sample breakdown of the cost of an elopement:

Estimated cost of an Luxury, dream elopement: $22,000

  • Photo/Video team $12,000

  • Wedding dress / attire $1,000-$5,000

  • Marriage license $100 (this varies)

  • Officiant $500

  • Flowers/Archway $1000-$3000

  • Hair /makeup $650

  • Elopement reception/celebration $1000-$5000

  • Travel and Accommodation $4000-$6000

Estimated cost of a simple elopement: $12,000

  • Photographer: $4,000

  • Wedding dress / attire $1,000-$3,000

  • Marriage license $100 (this varies)

  • Officiant $500

  • Flowers $400

  • Hair /makeup $650

  • Elopement reception/celebration $500

  • Travel and Accommodation $4000

 
 

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TL:DR: Costs of an elopement

Depending on how luxurious or simple youโ€™re going for, with a priority placed on expert vendor teams, you could expect to spend anywhere from $12,000-$25,000.

 

Easiest Way to Get Started

Starting your elopement journey doesnโ€™t have to be overwhelming. In fact, it can be simple and stress-free if you break it down step by step. Hereโ€™s how to get rolling without the overwhelm:

  1. Set your budget first โ€“ Knowing what you're comfortable spending keeps you focused and makes the rest of the planning easier. Iโ€™d recommend to not set your budget based on what you read on the internet. Do some initial research on how much flights costs, an estimation of lodging, your wedding clothes, etc. Setting a ballpark budget is usually the best approach, in our opinion.

  2. Pick your location โ€“ Go with a place that feels you. Whether itโ€™s a mountaintop, beach, or something elseโ€”just make sure it speaks to you both.

  3. Find a photographer who also plans โ€“ Seriously. A photographer who knows the elopement ropes can handle the logistics too, from permits to vendor recs, so you donโ€™t have to juggle a bunch of different people.

  4. Book your flights and lodging โ€“ Once youโ€™ve locked in the location, itโ€™s time to book your travel. Keep it simple and find a place thatโ€™s comfortable and close to your ceremony spot.

  5. Secure additional vendors โ€“ Your photographer/planner can help you navigate this portion. Some folks hire hair and makeup artists, a baker for a celebration dessert, florist for a bouquet, or make dinner reservations.

  6. Let your vendor team handle the rest โ€“ Trust me, Iโ€™ve done this hundreds of times. Iโ€™ll guide you through everything and take care of the details, so you can focus on the experience, not the stress.

The best part? Keeping it simple. Iโ€™ve got your back from start to finish, so you can enjoy the process and, most importantly, each other.

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Iโ€™m Michelle, a destination elopement photographer and planning guide who helps couples create meaningful, grounded wedding days anywhere in the world. I photograph with presence, plan with intention, and make the entire experience feel clear, calm, and genuinely enjoyable.

My job is to make this feel easy. I handle the logistics, the locations, the flow of the day โ€” everything that usually causes stress. You get to be present.

Your photos wonโ€™t feel staged. Theyโ€™ll feel lived. The way the day actually felt.

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